孩子的7棵习惯树

 

　　在美国，学校给学生们画了一个叫 7棵习惯树 The 7 Habits Tree －的海报，作为孩子们品格教育的参照纲领。可在中国，大多数人这方面的教育开始得太晚了。

　　所以，今天介绍 The 7 Habits Tree，希望对大家有帮助。

　　这幅海报用一棵大树来比喻孩子一生中要培养的好习惯。从树根开始从下往上，这7个习惯像一棵树一样逐渐长成，分别是：

　　1. Be proactive2. Begin with the end in mind3. Put first things first4. Think win-win5. Seek first to understand, then to be understoo6. Synergize7. Sharpen the saw下面，来看看对这7个习惯的注解：

　　第1个习惯：

　　Be proactive － you're in charge积极主动，我的人生我负责I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

　　我对自己负责，做事积极主动。我管理自己的行为、态度和情绪。我做了错事不怪别人。不用别人说我也会去做正确的事情，哪怕没有人在看。

　　第2个习惯：

　　Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan有目标，有计划I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.

　　做事前我会定计划和目标。我做有意义和带来积极影响的事。我是班级里的重要一员，为学校事务做贡献。我希望成为一个好公民。

　　第3个习惯：

　　Put first things first - Work first, then play做事分主次，先工作，后娱乐I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.

　　我在重要的事情上花时间。不该做的事，我勇于说不。我制定优先级，做日程表，执行我的计划。我对自己有纪律，做事井井有条。

　　第4个习惯Think win-win - Everyone can win从互赢角度考虑问题，利己利人I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

　　我勇于争取自己想要的，但是我同时也会考虑别人的需求。我在别人的情感银行帐号里放下我的存款。有矛盾的时候，我寻求能平衡彼此需求的解决方案。

　　第5个习惯Seek first to understand, then to be understood先去理解别人，再求被人理解I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.

　　我仔细聆听别人的主意和情感。我努力从他人角度去理解问题。听别人说话的时候我不插嘴、不打扰。我很有信心说出我自己的主意。别人说话的时候，我直视他的眼睛。

　　第6个习惯Synergize － Together is better协同－合作会更好I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.

　　我珍重别人的优点，向他们学习。我和大家很好相处，即使他们和我很不一样。我能有效地进行团队合作，因为我知道合作比单打独斗能带来更好的解决方案。我保持谦虚的精神。

　　第7个习惯Sharpen the saw－Balance feels best磨刀不误砍柴工，寻求健康和平衡I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.

　　我主意饮食、锻炼和睡眠。我花时间和家人、朋友在一起。我在各种地方都能以各种方式学到很多东西－学习的地方可不止于学校。我用有意义的方式去帮助别人。